Wednesday, June 22, 2005

**Musical Baton**

Very funny Becca:

Total Volume of Music Files on My Computer

2304 songs. God help me if they confiscate my work computer. Although the songs files stored on this computer are the least of my worries.

Last CD I bought


Almost bought James Taylor's Greatest Hits last night at Target, in an effort to use an electronics dept. store credit for an iPod adaptor I bought and needed to return after losing the receipt. But otherwise, I haven't "bought" a CD in a long time. Most recent iTunes purchase was a series of Ben Folds Five songs. Highly recommended.

Song playing right now

Pretenders, "Back on the Chain Gang" Love the shuffle function.

5 Songs I listen to a lot


Green Day, "Waiting"

Great song for finishing a round on the elliptical.

Ben Folds Five, "Luckiest" & "Brick"

One is powerfully romantic and one is powerfully sad.

Coldplay, "Scientist"
Haunting, as is all their music.

CCR, "Who'll Stop the Rain"

Classic

Death on Wednesday, "Simple Life"

No one will know this band or song. They did a two song sample CD release and my son found it. Don't know what has happened to them, but the song is great, especially for running. The drumming is incredibly rhythmic.

Don Henley, "End of the Innocence" and "Forgiveness"

Trained for a 5K and worked through a relationship at the same time listening to these songs.

and then stuff from the Cars, Pretenders, Coldplay, Dire Straits, Doors, Jackson Browne, Jet, Kinks, Santana all designed to keep my pace running. No way I can limit this to five.

I pass the baton to Miss Emily (another blogger-update-slacker) and.... Leann (if she has time before her vacation).

**Summertime.... and the blogging is slowing**

Odd feeling... having much going on, but not really motivated to update the blog. Probably because most of the stuff that matters is still unprocessed.

School have been done for about three weeks. I am only now feeling like it is over. I remember it taking this long over Christmas Break and as soon as I slowed down, the semester started again. Here I am acutely aware of the fact that in less than three weeks the summer will be half over. It just goes too fast. And I don't expect to get much in the way of sympathy for those in the private and public sector who are operating on 2-4 weeks annual vacation.

My summer is not my own, however. In order to come up with the $12-13K for my son's tuition next year I have resorted to summer work for pay. I am producing 2, maybe 3 videos.

I am beginning to do some general interest reading for law school. The school (actually a particular professor) compiled a list of 100 books/articles recommended for reading. I started light with Scott Turow's One L. Made me think about reading some of the hornbooks before I start. Also, made me want to watch the Paper Chase again, but no video store seems to have it.

Mostly, though this summer I have to prep for a retake of the LSATs. In order to secure a much needed Dean's scholarship (effectively making law school free for me as a commuter), I need to raise my score about 6 points. Seems doable, although the thought of studying for that test again is highly unappealing. It will take some serious discipline. But I won't do the retake until October and don't have to put a deposit down for my admission deferral until this Sept. I should know in early spring if I have the scholarship. I may, if the LSAT scores are good, apply more widely and fantasize leaving my job for 3 years at some prestigious law school. Right. More realistically, if the scholarship plans don't pan out, I will table law school for good.

More discussions under separate headings to come.

Sunday, June 12, 2005

**free wireless rocks**

This is why the Internet should not be privatized. I can sit here at Portland Airport and blog using free wireless access that exists all throught the airport. No AT&T wirelss telling me that I am not a subscriber. In fact, Portland is loaded with free wireless sites - through the city, not just the airport.

While I am gone the kids will get settled into their jobs and I think I will be coming home on Wednesday to an empty house. Kind of gotten used to that although all the energy in the house - not just the noise, but the increased "life" has been nice.

Well, I am flying Southwest, so I am learning the ropes of no seat assignments. Not realizing this, I didn't stategically check in on line before heading to the airport, so I am in loading line C (the basement of SWA loading lines). When I asked the check in clerk what my seat assignemnt was, he chuckled and said, "The Lavatory." Line C. What can I say. I will be fighting for a middle seat apparently.

Time to protect my spot (second in line) in Line C.

Thursday, June 09, 2005

**The pack is complete**

In about 4 hours I pick up my daughter. She is coming home for the summer. Well almost home. She will live about an hour away at the coast doing acquatic research. But we will get to have dinner occasionally and she will come home on most weekends. So for a brief period I have my son, daughter and dog all in the same house with me. The pack is complete.

I will be taking off this weekend for a workshop in Tennessee. Goes until mid week. Two teenagers left alone in the house for the weekend. Ahh, the possibilities.

Sunday, June 05, 2005

**Still catching up on sleep**

The end of the school year really kicks my butt apparently. I have been sleeping increasing late in the morning. My last few days have involved the riveting process of scanning anything pertaining to my divorce, child custody and settlement agreement so that I can send it electronically to my new fancy FOUR HUNDRED DOLLAR AN HOUR attorney. I thought that since everyone and their brother in Colorado was a fucking attorney, the market forces would drop the cost a bit. Figures I would need to work with the one profession whose rates are not driven by market forces, except, probably when a newly minted attorney goes out looking for work. I hear that, given the way-to-many attorneys our there, attorney job market forces work with an efficency that would make libertarians proud.

This guy better kick my ex's ass.

So one of the lovely things I learned by pouring over court transcripts, returns and W-2s is that my ex dramatically under reported his salary before the court a few years back. I think I mentioned this in an early entry when I said "WHO DOES KNOW THEIR FUCKING SALARY?"

Of course the fall out of this meant that for 8 years my child support was set far lower than the court would have done if they had known his real salary. I remember that joyous day in court when he told the judge he was taking a "fellowship" (note that the quotes are to reflect my cynicism) and even though for the next 15 months his income would be $1,000 monthly, it was a great professional development opportunity which would lead to a much higher paying job (didn't happen). He only turned his pay check stub over to the court at the actual hearing. I looked at it and noticed the pay date range was EVERY TWO WEEKS. I alerted my counsel to this and it became quite clear that he was making $2000 monthly. Here is the new revelation: His W-2's from that job reveal that he didn't make 30K for the 15 month fellowship like he conceded, His W-2's show that he made $52,000. Normally, I would have caught this little tidbit, but my ex never provided tax returns for the past eight years until he was forced to as part of this most recent proceeding. There is probably nothing I can do about that now, except use it as ammunition to pressure the magistrate to give us more time for discovery since clearly we will have to carefully investigate my ex's income sources carefully. No easy task since he is working in the EU.

Well, back to scanning, then the gym.